And I am back!!!

I left this space for the dead sometime in 2006. Today i googled myself (now dont ask me why i did that- its a long story) and came across my blog as the third result. Clicked on it and read through some of my blogs and liked what i read (belive me, i am quite a modest person usually.) So i have decided to TRY and blog more often. till then......

Normal People

Yesterday my best friend called and told me that I am the most normal person he had ever met. That got me thinking, was that meant as an honest compliment or a subtle snub...

Am I normal because I always have the reins in my hand? Or because I never let them go?
Am I normal because I see things as they are? Or because I don’t see them as I want to?
Am I normal because I want small things in life? Or because I have never run after the bigger ones?

Well it is, like most things in life usually are, a matter of perspective. My friend is not really a messed up guy himself, but he has met many who really are, so I guess for him I maybe a normal person. So I think he may be genuinely complimenting me. But everybody has their own demons to fight and I am no exceptions.
Then again I wonder would you like your epitaph to read "Here lays a normal person who lived his life normally and died like a normal person would (in bed of old age).” Doesn't that sound too safe, too boring??
Is it time that I start taking risks, start thinking only about myself and just let my self go and not hold back in love, life or death!!!!

Anonymous

Life does not cease to be funny when someone dies any more than it ceases to be serious when someone cracks a joke.

Campaign for Calm!!!

The NDTV campaign for Calm, launched after the recent Malegaon blast is one of the best things to come from a news channel since the advent of the Live News era on Indian television. What NDTV did was very simple and should be in any disaster management plans. They went to all the top religious leaders from all different locations and religions and got a statement from them urging people to remain calm and stay away from creating any communal tension. Now many of these religious leaders may have felt otherwise but on television they could not have possible said anything else. So by getting them speaking for peace on live television I think they may have prevented a lot of communal tension if not violence. Not only that but they also got many of these religious heads on the same platform to light candles for peace. Ya it did seem a little filmy but you bet it worked. Over the weekend they also covered the good, bad and ugle straight from Malegaon.

Compare this to news channels like Aaj Tak and Star News; Aaj Tak on Saturday (the day after the blast) was covering a story abt a car being driven without a driver. They got Dilip Chabharia and other supposedly important people to debate and discuss as to how this is possible. They rarely broadcasted the calm that had set over Malegaon instead choosing to relay scenes of devastation over and over again. Malegaon has been the scene of a lot of communal rioting over past few decades (last one as early as 2001). The fact that after such a big incident happened on such an important day (for Muslims) and in spite of this there was hardly any rioting (save a few stones thrown immediately after the blast) is the single biggest news story this year. Instead that honor will go to the 'Rescuing Prince' disaster.

NDTV has concentrated on important personal issues, like Jessica lal, Katara and Matto murder cases, with larger social ramifications. Its coverage of the RTI act story has been very very commendable. The other petty news channels have been obsessed with prince, Don Parties and Amar singh. What NDTV really lacks is capability to deliver quality international news. That credit goes to IBN (CNN partnered) which due to its backing by CNN is the Indian News channel to watch for international events. But unlike IBN, which mostly targets the urban elite, NDTV (both Hindi and English) still count the Indian masses as there main target audience and thus have to compete with other news channel to give the Indian audience the news as they like to hear it, with little drama and lot of spice. But they have still made a conscious effort to not degrade the quality of news. Kudos to Pranay Roy and team!!! I read somewhere that a similar thing happened in the US media market many years back. There were tons of news channel all giving spiced up news, in many cases creating stories. As the market and audience matured gradually 2-3 channels came up on top while others either closed shop or concentrated on delivering local/regional news. The Indian news televising will eventually go the same path and you may have guessed whom I have bet big on.

Ganpati Bappa Morya!!!

I am little to late to write on Ganpati Bappa but i got down to it as soon as i could find sometime. Having lived in mumbai i have always enjoyed Ganesh chaturthi. In Mumbai, it is always celebrated in a lot of pomp and style. I remember on the last day of immersion we used to stay up late in the night, in wait of a huge 30 ft ganpati idol sponsored by Bhagwan cutpiece. This procession was a grand affair. It used to start with elehants, camels and horses, then there used to be a dancing troupe folowed by continuos lighting of firecrackers( to signal one and all the "we are on our way!"). Next came few truckloads of people showering flowers all over the road and finally on a huge truck (those 18 wheels one) was the fabulous orange Idol lit up by tens of floodlights. We used to rush into the crowd to touch the idols feet for our share of blessings. Then retreat back to a safe place and watch the procession to the horizon.
In pune many immersion processes last for more then 30 hours(36 hours is the record). Mandals have to book timeslots for immersion and adhere to it. Of course "manache ganpati" get first priorities over the immersiosn schedule. Like all festivals Ganesh chaturthi also, in many cases cuts across the religious lines. I know of a group in mumbai with majority christian members celebrating Ganpati as well as anybody else. Muslims, sikhs and in many cases parsis also pay thier devotion to Ganpati. All in all, its safe to say that this is the most popular festival in Maharastra even ahead of Diwali and Holi.
So why is it that Ganpati bappa is so popular????
One reason is that, most of these mandals which host ganpati bappa are politically backed to the hilt. Many of them are sponsored by individual politicians or by parties. With loudspeakers blaring the party lines and party posters on big display, its a big advertisement vehicle that they cannot jsut afford to miss. Also by involving many party memebers into all the fun and games its a great event for them to socialise with each other.
A second reason is that its also a sheer money making machine. The top mandals in mumbai get something like 1-2 lakh vistors on average daily and many more on important days. Even if each of them on average puts in 1 rupee you can do the maths yourself. Plus many charge extra if you want to do special aarti or do the immersion. Also there is the money coming in from business sponsorers. Phew!!! No wonder the government has finally asked IT dept to look into many of the big mandals in mumbai.
But these 2 reasons alone cannot account for the immense popularity enjoyed by Ganpati Bappa. I think the main reason is that, of all the Gods we worship today, Ganpati is one of the most lovable and affable God. He is the one for the masses. How many different shapes of Ganpati have you seen?? A place in mumbai stocks 1000 different shapes of Ganpati and thier collection is not even close to exhuastive. People create Ganpati from everything.. so we have a Ganpati made up of 1000 coconuts, or a million rice grains,i even saw a ganpati which was made from only the moon and star symbols. And in all forms he is the most beautifull God i have ever seen. Many times when i go to see some ganpati i am so mesmerized by the idol itself that i forgrt to pray, stupidly standing and admiring him from top to bottom. What instantly hits you abt him are his eyes, there is humility and nobelity mixed with mischief. If you miss that in his eyes you know that the idol is not made well. But that apart people are also very fnd of him because he was sort of the underdog. Not only did he stand up to Lord Shiva (losig his head in the bargain) but also to Valmiki(ths time losing one of his tooth). And on both counts he came up on top. For the ladies he is thier protector, for the men he is thier idol, for the elders he is thier son and for the little ones he is a hero!!! Ganpati Bappa Morya.. pudhcha varsi lavkar ya!!!!!

Never done this before!!

Well this is i guess a little lik writing a dairy, somthing i have always wanted to do, but never been able to actually getting down to it.... hpefully i will be better at this....cheers!!!